Emotional Authority - Defined Solar Plexus - Why to Wait for Clarity

Human Design Emotional Authority people have a Defined Solar Plexus

Transcript:

So we're gonna start with the most

Common “waiting for clarity” these people

Need to feel their feelings and all of

You who are emotional as a definition

That is the key. Feel your feelings don't

Be afraid to feel your feelings. But what

Happens when you have an adult in your

Life who is not emotional they don't

Feel comfortable with your feelings they

Suppress you if they drug you they make

You bad and wrong for being up and down

This is a real-life experience that I've

Seen countless times for emotional

People who have up and downs and then

Until it gets you can't it's like a

Pressure cooker you can't pressurize

Yourself for so long it explodes at some

Point yeah you get angry you explode

Something happens that it doesn't feel

Good and then you're really embarrassed

And then you try to put the lid on even

Tighter next time okay so if you feel an

Exaggerated urgency or pressure to act

When you are emotional and you're

Nervous and you're not sure and you just

Gotta get rid of this pressure let me do it

That's not your authority when you're

Really really happy or really really sad

That's not the time to make a choice

It's usually coming from the mind not

From clarity when you feel anxious and

Nervous and uncomfortable and your mind

Is going into all these hypotheses and

Telling you don't wait you can't afford

To wait because the operative term here

Is patience is its own reward patience

Gives you clarity you never ever ever

Make a choice when you're dysregulated

Crying upset never you you cancel that

Engagement whatever it is get get okay

With you if you have an important

Meeting and you're all over the map

That's a sign your body does not want to

Go into that meeting and then people go

Well I have to I promised I must I

Should know cuz you might have an

Important meeting and you just had

People die or whatever it happens to be

And you need some time time is what is

Really healing and time is what is

Needed for people when their

Dysregulated to off-gas the emotions

However or to express to feel whatever

Those emotions need to do that's not the

Time for important decision-making hi is

Worse than low because when you're high

Happy happy everything's great

You're gonna make a yes choice that

You're going to regret later

Because you didn't see all the downs the

Downs give us important information

About the big picture wait for pressure

To subside wait to be able to feel when

The timings right

This means no nervousness you are

Jittery you are anxious you are nervous

You can't swallow coz a lump in your

Throat wait wait make excuses healthy

Excuses you know let me get back to you

Let me sleep on it can I have some time

To process this this is a lot to take in

Right now I need some time yeah can I

Get back to you when do I need to get

Back to you when do you need to know bye

Push it off the further you push off a

Decision the healthier it is for you if

You are nervous so once you've been

Recognized and invited as an advisor

Never make the choice point on happy

Happy happy or low make it somewhere in the middle

Where you've already been up and down on

That particular experience sleep on it

At least sleep on it because you wake up

In a totally different mood than you

Were when you were down when you are

Going to sleep so give yourself the time

Don't get tossed around by the waves of

Emotion because it's like the difference

Between you and having rose-colored

Glasses on when you're happy and really

Foggy thick glasses of not being able to

See blinders it's like having blinders

On when you're sad cuz you're only

Attuned to what is going on in front of

You that resonates to how you feel

Remember we're all resonant creatures

We're vibrating on a frequency when

You're happy you can't remember the last

Time you were so devastated felt like

Life was falling apart

Not really you don't have access to that

Energy so wait for calm confidence

Clarity not excitement you know that

Common what is it law of attraction

Thing follow your highest excitement

That's not true for emotional people not

Spontaneously okay I hope I make that

Clear so we cannot make choices up here

Or down here I have left relationships

Down here and regretted it for the rest

Of my life don't make my mistake wait

Out your wave make decisions from calm

And clarity because what happens is we

Have emotions that go up and down there

Is a choice point somebody asks and then

You have to wait for time because time

Gives you perspective okay time gives

You perspective on whether or not to

Support your tribe with this bargain or

That whether or not to empower or to be

Social to be with that other person

Because or do that thing because you're

Passionate about it because you love it

Like nothing else in this universe when

Time gives you the availability to know

Whether you should share your emotions

With others or

Actually engage in that experience with

Them time is the only truth with

Emotionally intelligent people. Time is

Your friend

Your mind is not.”

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Feelings Recognized "Frustration" An Emotional Energy Projector Q & A

Today's question is an excerpt from a Right Angle Cross of Maya Emotional Projector in a Facebook group posting I felt invited to share on. With my nodes on the 32/42 axis, I get a lot of these people in my Human Design Life Coaching practice

Why Am I Frustrated?

Everyone, regardless of Type, is subject to experiencing frustration in life, despite the fact that Frustration is the keynote of a Generator Aura/Builder Career Type who is out of alignment with their highest purpose and off-track. This is because all of us have a Sacral Center, even if it is not consistently designed to respond. 

If you find yourself frustrated more often than not, you're likely attempting to "push the river" and do too much without letting life ask for what it wants from you.

In other words, attempting to:

Initiate new directions, new courses of action, new relationships and create any kind of new endeavor, form new community structures or businesses, and do everything yourself, instead of learning how to work interdependently with others correctly and ask for help, is a recipe for deep frustration. Sacral defined or not!

Undefined Sacral Center (Energy Resource Function)

Emotional Projector Example Chart - Not-Self Frustration

Frustration is a keynote of the Sacral Center's life force energy out of alignment with it's purpose for being.

"No manifestation! I think that my frustration lies here."

Likely you are frustrated because your fear of missing out due to these not-self behaviors:

• Consciously driven by a tendency to say yes before you've been asked or waited for emotional clarity (Hexagram 29 "The Abyss" the Gate of Perseverance, Commitment)
   
• Obeying your need to be friendly/friends with someone you like to bond with them, yet in the not-self behavior you do this without them inviting you into an intimate connection or you jump into it too soon (Hexagram 59 "Dispersion" the Gate of Sexuality)
   
• Unconsciously needing to be realistic in your capacities to care and nurture, and perhaps resenting that you may sap the resources of others because you have a non-self need to able to consistently generate/manifest all on your own (Hexagram 27 "Nourishment" the Gate of Caring)
   

How to Make Better Choices:

Where you are designed to be successful and operate from is that Emotional Authority, rather than attempting to Generate (go-go-go) or Manifest (initiate to make things happen). 

When you are clearly recognized and invited for your: 

• Transmission of what the tribe needs to be sold on in order for everyone to have what they need to survive and keep their promises (Channel 44-26 "Surrender," the design of a Transmitter)
   
• Negotiation abilities to facilitate win/win bargains that build the communal structures our tribes are built upon (Channel 37-40 "Community," the design of a Part Seeking a Whole) 

AND

Once you have had time to feel through your recognition of what the needs of your tribe are and sensing the emotions of what it is to be YOU.

YOU, the supportive guide of your tribe who is here to be wise about how to break down barriers to achieve unity within your network, guiding their progress with your provocative heresy you unconsciously value and passionately emote when needed.

YOU, here to be called out and of value for your network of friends (2/4 Profile).

So only use your energy where/when your peeps need your support so that all needs are fairly met. In alignment with your emotions over time.

Avoid frustration by relaxing into your chameleon-like self and allow the feelings to rise and fall, waiting for that beautiful synchronistic moment when you feel the settled-ness, the space between the emotional movement where there is no fear.

Only clarity that these are the people, YOUR people, who value you for you, who honor and respect your time, energy and advice, who give YOU what you need in return for the value you bring to them.

Now it's Your Turn, Human Designers:

Why Do Projectors Get Frustrated?

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